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I just don't get it

Mon Aug 3, 2009, 5:21 AM
  • Mood: Neglect
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  • Watching: The computer screen
  • Drinking: Coca-Cola
Normaly it doesn't bother me but latly it has, why is it I cannot seem to find a girl? I'm not bad looking, I'm a pretty nice guy, I can get loud if I don't watch myself at times, but hey who doesnt? Highschool, middleschool ANY school, I just couldn't find that one girl for me. Sure there were girls I liked, but it was more of a friendship than anything else. One girl who I could get to laugh and seemed to like me to I decided wasn't worth it after she told me not to tell anyone about her liking me. Hell, if thats how she was then not worth it. And even now I seem to be invisable, a random guy that isn't worth hanging out with. I'm afraid to try anything because I might come off as being desperate or somthing. Talking to girls for me is easy, so its not that. I have no idea, and now I am sitting here typing this into a journal on a website called "DEVIANT ART" great. Oh well, at least I'm writing it somewhere instead of keeping to myself, although, I could have chosen a better venue that here >.>

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I have the same problem :/ I tried waiting for someone to come to me, but that didn't work (I'm in the same boat as you btw) and I tried searching. and that only worked sometimes. so I ended up just living how I alway lived. talking to guys and girls. making lots of acquaintances and friends. till eventually I found =Jessrillaz (who goes to my school) and we became friends, and we continued on as such for 2 months. and then we started dating. now we've been dating for over a year! just remember to be yourself, otherwise when you do find someone. then you wouldn't find someone who truly likes "you". I learned that what other people think of me give me my title (nerd :P) but though thats my title, it doesn't mean it's a bad thing. I never let other people opinions change my own, because then I wouldn't be as me as I am now :) . you'll find someone, or they'll find you. and look around, they may be right under your nose ;) just because it hasn't happened yet, doesn't mean it wont. what you like may change, so if you see someone you don't think you'll like. give them a chance, because under that outside, you might like whats inside. you won't know until you start, but you may not be the one deciding when you'll start. but remember that it will happen, so you gotta let it happen. also don't push people, but don't let others push you. sorry for the long comment (and probably the typos) but I felt exactly like you, and I felt like I was the kind of person everyone likes, but doesn't love. don't let it get you down, and it'll be easier to rise up. I had it a little worse than you. I still have acne (all my pictures are photo-shopped :)) so good luck with your efforts. Nothing is in vain if you tried.

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ive been in relationships before and let me tell ya this: being single is way better.

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